PROLOGUE
I… want to see the “truth”
Whereas I am convinced that an objective truth exists… Such a sentiment is “shouted down” to conform to whatever is deemed “socially acceptable”…
In recent times, I have absorbed – a lot – of “red pill” media. Although, I have taken such information as “data points” – many would consider – evaluation tantamount to – carte blanche blind acceptance…
To which I would counter – if your ideas can’t stand – being challenged – do they actually have any strong merit at all…
Women – Value Added To The World
First off, I look at women (and men) as an aggregate – the summation of their influences.
If a drop of black falls into an ocean of clear water – does the water become “black”? – This is to say that though exceptions do 100% (1000%) exist, should we define our understanding in accordance to the exceptions?
IMHO… the ocean is still “clear”…
If women did not exist…
Many of the innovations that we see in the world – would not exist.
Why do I believe this?
- I am a man.
- I see what happens when “women” are not part of a man’s calculations of what HE wants to achieve.
Men, in general, do whatever, we believe necessary to achieve the goals… we believe we can actually achieve.
… People often ask… why do men “waste” so much time on video games? The answer is simple. The goal is well defined… AND the man believes that the goal is ACHIEVEABLE.
A gamer decides he wants a certain item, he will expend “blood, sweat, and tears”… because he believes that – “with enough hard work” that item is ATTAINABLE!
The Real World…
THIS… is how men see – relationships… a desolate world – in which even his “very best” has no hope to put a dent into the trajectory of where society is going…
So… why not say in the basement? Why strive for (the mirage) of “happiness” – when he is content in his parents’ basement being “king” in the – virtual world?
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But this belays the limitation of men. We (as a whole) won’t create (innovate) – simply for creation’s (innovation’s) sake – there must be some benefit for us to DEVOTE Countless Hours… to improve a world…
which, as far as we are concerned… is already meeting our basic needs (and possibly more!)…
Enter the Woman…
Now… he is confronted with a choice… status quo – with no woman… or to improve the world – and gain a partner… a family!
And the summation of all those men who strive to obtain the woman and “gain” a family… is a BETTER WORLD… FOR ALL!!!
A woman gives a man – A purpose – beyond himself… without women… society would never have advanced beyond “caveman” days… (because men would have no compelling reason to advance…)
If men did not exist…
The would be a society – with a Cornucopia of Diverse and Vibrant Ideals…
But with little coordination to make those ideas – longstanding and prolific…
I… have come to realize, that some women… are intelligent and innovative… and a select few even unparalleledly so…
But a woman’s Achilles’ heel – is pragmatism. She “believes” and maybe is even “convinced” that “anything is possible”, yet time and time again, I observe how many female genius, are oblivious to the vital practical aspects needed to make their visions – a reality…
So… if men did not exist – we would have a vivid vibrate world… that would very soon utterly collapse…
Why – Are Modern Relationships failing?
Because there is not proper appreciation for each gender’s roles.
I (naively) imagine a world in which a woman – communicates to a man – “I will show you how you can more to a WHOLE OTHER LEVEL!”… Where she doesn’t believe “success” is when SHE is the boss, but she can realize the potential of a Worthy Man…
I also imagine a world… in which a man can Explain the “pros” and “cons” of a woman’s ideas (and suggest an “improved” (more pragmatic) implementation… and not be deemed as “regressive” or “misogynistic”, but instead seen as a person who genuinely wants the woman’s success…
There is… this (imagined) idea – that men (in general) are “holding women back” (holding their heads under the water)… afraid of her “true power”…
What men have found – is that if we act like women are just like “Esteemed Men” – These Women – complain of “unfair treatment”…
An “Esteemed Man” – doesn’t make excuses – he simply leads… (For all of the FOPAS – Elon Musk has made… I don’t remember him EVER blaming someone else…)
You “Strong Women” confuse (the heck out of) us. You can handle anything, except for even the most minor of backlash… then quick pivot and say that “if I was a man, you would never treat me this way…”
I am saying – you are sending a mixed message. Any “Alpha Male” EXPECTS to be challenged at ANY TIME. But too often the slightest suggested that your idea is questions is deemed a form of hatred and prejudice…