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I’ve realized that the social idea that two people meet and “just know” and the result is a happy and successful relationship is just plain WRONG.

Maybe this works for 1 couple in 1000, but that definitely is not a statistic to bet your future happiness on.

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1.  People take dating / relationships way too seriously. 
I don’t know how many times, I’ve been on dates, in which the girl acts like the results at the end of the date will determine if she will have a man to provide grandchildren (yes, I meant grandchildren and not just children).

People should casually date a good number of different people. They should spend time one on one with the opposite sex. Sometimes, simply to better understand how the opposite sex thinks.

2.   You have to learn how the opposite sex thinks. (at least somewhat).
I can understand the desire to have one person “all to yourself,” but the problem comes later in the relationship. You will find that you will not understand how to communicate and result the INEVITABLE Conflicts.

It’s a very foolish belief that people have that two people “just click.” We all misunderstand each other sometimes. We all have our own individual opinions.

If you have more experience with the opposite sex, it’s a lot easier to understand what the other person is thinking, how to de-escalate conflicts and not take disagreements so personally, and finally how to properly “make up” 

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To this end, I’ve been studying the techiques of “pick up artists.” But such studies have quickly lead me to a better understanding of a woman…

What Women REALLY Want And REALLY Need (because much of what we have grown up learning is a best misinformational and worse leads relationships filled with present or future conflict).

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Personally, I KNOW my GOAL…

  1. A Happy Successful Relationship With A Woman I Adore
  2. Being Able To Make My Future Wife Happy
  3. An Awesome Family

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BUT Now I Finally Understand That The FIRST Step Is Spending Enough Time With (Many Members Of The) Opposite Sex

—> In order to gain the SKILLS Necessary To Achieve These Goals.

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